Archive for April, 2015


Luv like a goose

April 29, 2015

Poppa Goose, Momma Goose and goslings on a Tuesday afternoon stroll.

While they’re mean as all get-out and uber-territorial, I sort of admire the Canadian Geese that overtake our city each spring. As I understand geese, they mate for life. There’s a novel idea for people to consider.

Geese return each year to the same location – home. They remind me how important home is to family life. Each spring, which starts in February in north Florida, they show up to reclaim their nesting space. They settle in for two or three months to give momma goose a place to lay her eggs and nurture them.

Poppa waddles around to protect her and his family-to-be. Heaven help the pedestrian who wanders too close. Poppa sqwaks and hisses, and if necessary, makes physical contact to assure his family stays safe. Many of us know that not all dads show that kind of attention … or love.

Today I smiled when I saw Mr. & Mrs. Goose and family strolling in my neighborhood. I’m not foolish so I didn’t try to get close. Yet, in that instant, the geese and goslings represented the best of family that we seem to be losing in American human families.

Maybe these best practices of geese, can help humans ‘do’ family better. Perhaps we just need to keep it simple and turn to geese as a model for family life.


Stewards of the Earth

April 19, 2015

My husband and I were in Boston last weekend for vacation. We attended the college men’s national hockey championship, the “Frozen Four,” which was at TD Garden.

In today’s social media-centric society, everyone wants to tweet, Instagram or Facebook about everything, including experiences at events like the “Frozen Four.” In fact, most events now give you a hashtag (e.g, #FrozenFour) to include in your message. At the live events, including this one, they display your tweet on the Jumbotron. Fun for all!

In fact, TD Garden so encouraged that social media interaction, the facility has a charging station so at breaks we could charge our phones. As a communication professional, I love that idea and I fully expect to see more and more venues copying that model.

Yet, as soon as I thought that, my thoughts went to how greedy and consumptive we are, especially Americans. Do any of us ever stop to think about the natural resource we use when we charge our electrical devices? I know that I don’t think about it often.

I try to be careful in my use to minimize waste. When I want a device to work, however, I don’t hesitate to use the electricity – or water, or gas in my vehicle, etc.

Often I thank God for the gifts He has given us that stem from the intelligence He’s given us. I don’t doubt that God created us, by design, to continue to innovate. Innovation has led to space exploration and advances in medicine. It’s led to development of these electronic devices that allow us to communicate from any place at any time. I think these are gifts.

As with any gift, we are responsible to care for the gifts and wisely use them. That includes preserving natural resources for future generations. Being faithful stewards means we will not exhaust every gift we have available and leave nothing for others.

Instead, God wants us to share and be generous with our gifts – today and into the future. I hope that as we continue to embrace social media, we all also embrace faithful stewardship of all resources.

1 Peter 4:10 (NRSV): Like good stewards of the manifold grace of God, serve one another with whatever gift each of you has received.


Easter Monday

April 6, 2015

I’m old enough (but not old) to remember when Easter Monday, like Good Friday, was a holiday. Unfortunately that’s no longer true for either of those religious holidays.

So as I get ready for work this morning, I can still celebrate Jesus’ resurrection. Mostly I celebrate that I have a job to go to and I am able to work.

I try to remember often that those are also gifts from God. I have a loving husband, daughter and family. I have enough food, a modest yet comfortable home that is heated in the winter and cooled in the summer. I have enough water – cold water – whenever I thirst.

God blesses me with these things as well as eternal life through His son’s win over death. What a glorious day!


He is Risen!

April 5, 2015

The Resurrection of Jesus: Matthew 28:1-10

After the sabbath, as the first day of the week was dawning, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went to see the tomb. 2 And suddenly there was a great earthquake; for an angel of the Lord, descending from heaven, came and rolled back the stone and sat on it. 3 His appearance was like lightning, and his clothing white as snow. 4 For fear of him the guards shook and became like dead men. 5 But the angel said to the women, “Do not be afraid; I know that you are looking for Jesus who was crucified. 6 He is not here; for he has been raised, as he said. Come, see the place where he lay. 7 Then go quickly and tell his disciples, ‘He has been raised from the dead, and indeed he is going ahead of you to Galilee; there you will see him.’ This is my message for you.”8 So they left the tomb quickly with fear and great joy, and ran to tell his disciples. 9 Suddenly Jesus met them and said, “Greetings!” And they came to him, took hold of his feet, and worshiped him. 10 Then Jesus said to them, “Do not be afraid; go and tell my brothers to go to Galilee; there they will see me.”

He is Risen! He is Risen indeed!

Will your Easter Sunday worship begin with those words as mine will? I hope so because that is the reason we celebrate today and it is the reason we journeyed through 40 days of Lenten ‘fasting.’

For most of my adult life, Easter has been, and still is, my favorite religious holiday. In part perhaps because it is less commercialized than Christmas. (It is, however, plenty commercialized.)

I love the music, which often includes brass. We have energy in our worship. We see little girls and boys dressed up, sometimes we still see girls in the white gloves and patent leather shoes, and hats in which my mom adorned me at that age. It’s nice to see so many dressed up in honor of this incredible gift God gives us.

While we’re all excited, maybe from the Easter basket candy as much as from faithful joy, imagine the excitement – and fear? – from Mary Magdalene and the other Mary. Above, Matthew tells us “they left the tomb quickly with fear and great joy.”

Who wouldn’t, right? But I don’t think I would have wanted to leave him for fear I’d imagined it all. If only they’d had cell phones. They could have texted the disciples and stayed right there with Jesus. Today the news would immediately be all over Twitter and YouTube. ‘#HeIsRisen!’

Thankfully for us all it wasn’t anyone’s imagination. God indeed loves us so much that He sacrificed His only son, Jesus, and raised him from the dead to assure that we have eternal life.

Even on the days or years when life on Earth is hard and we deal with assorted pains and struggles, we can hold onto God’s promise. Based on our faith alone, God promises that physical death will have no hold on us either. We will spend eternity with God thanks to Jesus.

He is Risen! He is Risen indeed!


Lent Day 40

April 4, 2015

A rock. A boulder. Cold and gray, smooth and rough to the touch. It blocks the entrance to Jesus’ tomb. Even if I could push it away, my Jesus would still be dead. Only when he died, did others recognize that he was the Son of God.

Matthew 27: 50-54 (NRSV) 50 Then Jesus cried again with a loud voice and breathed his last. 51 At that moment the curtain of the temple was torn in two, from top to bottom. The earth shook, and the rocks were split.52 The tombs also were opened, and many bodies of the saints who had fallen asleep were raised. 53 After his resurrection they came out of the tombs and entered the holy city and appeared to many. 54 Now when the centurion and those with him, who were keeping watch over Jesus, saw the earthquake and what took place, they were terrified and said, “Truly this man was God’s Son!”

Matthew 28: 62-66 (NRSV) explains that fear about Jesus’ promise to rise from the dead in three days prompted Pilate, the chief priests and the Pharisees to secure the tomb. Seemingly they weren’t confident that Jesus was just a ‘foolish man,’ yet they still didn’t recognize his might and God’s might.

Are we really any different? It is hard to wrap our human brains around this power. And despite our faith, do we also at times use a boulder to seal the tomb? To separate us from God’s power? Perhaps so we can ignore God or cherry-pick what we like about faith in God?

Maybe when we insert our human-made rules that we say we base on faith or the Bible, we seal the tomb. God’s rules are pretty simple. Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:1-11 NRSV). The greatest of these is love.

Matthew 22:36-40 (NRSV)

36 “Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?” 37 He said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the greatest and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

Still, in our humanness, we continue to ignore His commandments or twist them to fit our needs. In doing that, I think it’s possible we continue to seal Jesus’ tomb.

That adds to my sadness on this Day Two of Jesus’ death. When, or will, we all – around the world – accept God and these simple commandments? Wouldn’t it make life abundantly easier for everyone?

As I pause today to think about Jesus’ death, I need to ponder what it is I can do to help make this change. I can start only with myself and with God’s help, I can make a difference. Like the tiniest motion that begins to roll away the rock, my change can help unseal the tomb.


Lent Day 39

April 3, 2015

Good Friday

Today is that day in our church year that’s hard to understand why it’s called what it is. What could be ‘good’ about killing Jesus?

Good Friday worship always moves me and often brings tears. We strip the altar and cover the cross in black. In my mind, I hear the pounding of the nails into Jesus’ palms, feet and sides and I can only try to imagine his pain.

I leave the service in silence with my fellow believers. And at least until we get in our cars, we are with Jesus in his death.

For Christians today, of course, we know now that Jesus will rise from the dead in three days. Impossible to believe, really, but through our faith in God’s almighty power, we know that all things are possible.

We know, also, that God loves us so much He sent His only Son to die for us.

John 3:16 (NRSV) For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.

In that we can see the ‘good’ in this Friday. We can worship in sadness and darkness today. We can mourn today. We can question how they could have killed Jesus.

We can do those human things because we are confident in our faith that God will raise His Son from death – for us – on Sunday morning.


Lent Day 38

April 2, 2015

Maundy Thursday. The day we remember Jesus’ Last Supper. The day before we go on to crucify Jesus.

As a kid, “Maundy” always puzzled me. I still know adults who think we mean “Monday” not “Maundy.” Maundy references washing of feet, which we believe Jesus did at the Last Supper.

I’m not a fan of feet. I barely tolerate my own. Baby feet are perfect, cute, pudgy and even if they smell sweaty, they’re still sweet. That quickly disappears in my opinion so I have no interest in washing others’ feet or having them wash mine.

My church and my home church include feet washing in their Maundy Thursday worship services. I skip those. I’d rather watch Jesus Christ Superstar, which has a beautiful Last Supper scene. I prefer that image.

No matter how you remember this holy day, we should all focus on Jesus’ impending death and resurrection that saves us all. Tomorrow we will mourn Jesus’ death and Sunday morning we can celebrate. Hallelujia!